Oh
Christmas Lists, Oh Christmas Lists…
The moral conflict that every parent faces. We want to teach our children that Christmas
is about giving and not receiving. We
emphasize relentlessly the true meaning of Christmas. We are extra inspired this time of year to
pick a charity to donate our time and gifts.
But, we also want to give to our children, as there is nothing better
than to watch their faces light up on Christmas morning when Santa has nailed
the ‘perfect’ gift. It feeds our giving
soul, and brings that extra joy and magic to the air.
Grandparents and other family members want in on this
mini thrill too. They want to take part
in the joy that comes with giving the perfect gift. So when grandparents ask, “What do the kids
want this year?” my mind always seems to draw a blank. The other day, however, I overheard as the
kids took it upon themselves to put together their Christmas lists. As I held my breath, wondering just what they
could possibly come up this year. Have
they learned to tame down their greed with reasonable requests financially and
logistically? Will Santa be able to
deliver this year?
Now I’m not sure why I haven’t learned yet, but even
after 13 years of raising children, they never cease to surprise and/or
entertain me. I hope their lists will do
the same for you. And I hope you and
your family have a WONDERFUL holiday season full of every day laughs.
